FOCUS & ATTENTION TOOLKIT

Supporting ADHD at Home

ADHD isn't about laziness or willpower — it's about how the brain manages attention and energy. With the right structures, pre-teens and teens with ADHD can thrive at home and school.

ADHD

Why it matters

  • Builds confidence and capability
  • Reduces daily friction
  • Supports school success
  • Strengthens family teamwork

Signs This May Be Affecting Your Child

  • Trouble starting or finishing tasks
  • Losing things frequently
  • Difficulty sitting still or waiting
  • Acting before thinking
  • Trouble following multi-step directions
  • Getting easily distracted
  • Hyper-focusing on preferred activities
One sign doesn't mean there is a problem. Look for patterns over time.

Not Sure What to Say? Try Asking:

  • What's the hardest part of your day right now?
  • What helps you get started on hard tasks?
  • Is there a way I can help you stay on track?
  • How do you feel when you finish something?
  • Would a checklist or timer help?
  • What's one thing you'd like to be easier?
Focus on strengths and effort. Praise the process, not just the outcome.

5 Habits That Support Focus

  • Break tasks into small steps
  • Use visual checklists and timers
  • Keep a consistent daily routine
  • Build in movement breaks
  • Create a calm, clutter-free workspace
  • Celebrate effort and progress

FREE ADHD TOOLS FOR FAMILIES

Download the routine planner

A printable planner to help your teen break tasks into manageable steps.

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Homework Helper

A printable step-by-step guide to help pre-teens and teens break big tasks into small, manageable steps.

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Free ADHD tools

CDC — ADHD

Clear, reliable facts and tips from the CDC on ADHD in children and teens.

NIMH — ADHD

Trusted information from the National Institute of Mental Health on ADHD signs, causes, and treatment.

AACAP

Expert resources for families from the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry.

CHADD

A trusted nonprofit offering information, support, and education for families living with ADHD.

ADHD Evidence

A searchable database of clear, science-based information on ADHD treatments and supports.