DIGITAL WELLNESS TOOLKIT

Screen Time & Social Media

Most pre-teens and teens use screens every day. You don't need to take screens away. Instead, help your child build healthy screen habits. Good habits protect their sleep, mood, and self-esteem.

Screen Time

Why it matters

  • Protects sleep and mood
  • Supports focus and learning
  • Builds self-esteem
  • Keeps family connected

Signs This May Be Affecting Your Child

  • Trouble sleeping or staying up late on devices
  • Increased irritability or mood swings
  • Anxiety or sadness after using social media
  • Comparing themselves to others online
  • Losing interest in offline activities
  • Difficulty disconnecting from screens
  • Screen time affecting school or family time
One sign doesn't mean there is a problem. Look for patterns over time.

Not Sure What to Say? Try Asking:

  • How do you feel after spending time on social media?
  • What's your favorite thing to do online?
  • Have you ever seen something online that upset you?
  • What would you do if something made you uncomfortable?
  • How do you decide what to share and what to keep private?
  • Would you like to try a screen-free activity together?
Listen before giving advice. A calm conversation helps your child feel heard and more comfortable.

5 Healthy Digital Habits

  • Balance screen time with offline activities
  • Unplug at least 1 hour before bed
  • Take regular screen-free breaks
  • Protect personal privacy online
  • Create a family media plan together

Join the 30-Day Screen-Free Challenge

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FREE SCREEN TIME TOOLS FOR FAMILIES

Create your family media plan

Set clear guidelines together. Download our template to get started!

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Our Screen-Free Time Plan

A printable family worksheet to plan screen-free time — pick activities, set a schedule, and reflect together.

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Manage your child's screen time and set screen time controls

Google Family Link

Set digital ground rules with Google's family app

Apple Screen Time

Learn about Apple's built-in screen time controls

Microsoft Family Safety

Build healthy habits with Microsoft's family tools

Trusted, evidence-based websites to learn more

Make a Family Media Use Plan

HealthyChildren.org walks you through building a personalized family media plan step by step.

The 5 Cs of Media Guidance

A simple framework from HealthyChildren.org to help you guide your child's screen time with confidence.

5 Cs Questions for School-Age Children

Conversation prompts from HealthyChildren.org to talk with school-age kids about media use.

Surgeon General: Screen Use Harms

An HHS report on the potential harms of screen use and how to protect young people.